Comments on: A Little Something About My Personal Space http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/ BlindCripple Sat, 29 Oct 2011 23:47:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: cath http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-818 cath Wed, 18 Nov 2009 09:34:43 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-818 Neal Like i said to you on the phone and via DM, this is your truth, your space and yeah, your world. You should never have to justify it for anyone. Nor censor yourself. You didnt name her. She could be anyone. I mean, is it a she? *IM KIDDING NEAL* Big hugs, hon. I've been here before. Even had an entire blog of mine deleted by someone who 'didnt like that i shared my life with the world'. So they hacked a bit, got my password and deleted.my.entire.blog. All 2 years of writing. Keep writing. Keep doing what you do. xx Cath Neal

Like i said to you on the phone and via DM, this is your truth, your space and yeah, your world. You should never have to justify it for anyone. Nor censor yourself.

You didnt name her. She could be anyone. I mean, is it a she?

*IM KIDDING NEAL*

Big hugs, hon. I’ve been here before. Even had an entire blog of mine deleted by someone who ‘didnt like that i shared my life with the world’. So they hacked a bit, got my password and deleted.my.entire.blog. All 2 years of writing.

Keep writing. Keep doing what you do.

xx
Cath

]]> By: blindcripple http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-817 blindcripple Wed, 18 Nov 2009 08:42:33 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-817 Thanks for the support guys. I would never compromise how I write, and I will try my hardest to not let anyone in my head to effect that. The writing will continue... I think I said everything I needed to about "our" situation in my post, so I guess that is the end... Thanks for the support guys. I would never compromise how I write, and I will try my hardest to not let anyone in my head to effect that.

The writing will continue…

I think I said everything I needed to about “our” situation in my post, so I guess that is the end…

]]> By: SlickTiger http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-816 SlickTiger Wed, 18 Nov 2009 08:01:33 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-816 I really enjoyed this post, it reminded me of a breakup I went through a few years back, especially the part about how she still makes you catch your breath, I can relate 100%. Also, if she wants to read the things you post on your blog, let her. I'm a writer myself and for years have had everyone from my parents to my girlfriends read my journals and personal pieces of writing behind my back, and my philosophy has never changed. If they want to read that stuff, let 'em. They know full well that there might be stuff in there that's going to hurt or upset them, hell, that's half the reason they go digging for dirt in the first place. All you can do is remain honest and open and there is absolutely nothing anyone can hold against you. Don't compromise on your writing for ANYONE. You have a skill, so use it :) I really enjoyed this post, it reminded me of a breakup I went through a few years back, especially the part about how she still makes you catch your breath, I can relate 100%.

Also, if she wants to read the things you post on your blog, let her. I’m a writer myself and for years have had everyone from my parents to my girlfriends read my journals and personal pieces of writing behind my back, and my philosophy has never changed.

If they want to read that stuff, let ‘em. They know full well that there might be stuff in there that’s going to hurt or upset them, hell, that’s half the reason they go digging for dirt in the first place.

All you can do is remain honest and open and there is absolutely nothing anyone can hold against you.

Don’t compromise on your writing for ANYONE. You have a skill, so use it :)

]]> By: Desrie http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-815 Desrie Wed, 18 Nov 2009 06:58:29 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-815 I think the important bit is no one really knows who she is unless they're close to you in RL. She can bookmark your post on her as a digital reminder of how one's actions affects other people! And so maybe the post can go a long way to helping you, and her.. I think the important bit is no one really knows who she is unless they’re close to you in RL.

She can bookmark your post on her as a digital reminder of how one’s actions affects other people! And so maybe the post can go a long way to helping you, and her..

]]> By: Michelle http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-814 Michelle Wed, 18 Nov 2009 05:44:42 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-814 I agree. This is your blog. Your world, your freedom to express whatever it is that YOU need to. No-one should dare to tell you what to do with your words. if this is what helps you deal with everyday, then who is anyone else to tell you otherwise. I think it's a great blog, so keep up the good word. I agree. This is your blog. Your world, your freedom to express whatever it is that YOU need to. No-one should dare to tell you what to do with your words. if this is what helps you deal with everyday, then who is anyone else to tell you otherwise. I think it’s a great blog, so keep up the good word.

]]> By: ani http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-813 ani Wed, 18 Nov 2009 04:32:11 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-813 I really do understand the need for a personal space outside of the "real" world. This online world is as real as the outside world, but we draw a line between how we share ourselves here and how we interact offline. For me personally, I've decided to be more of the person that I'd like to be by practising online. Now, there is little difference between online ani and offline ani. And I like that. I still have private spaces online where I can express myself and think things out with words and images. I need that space... and I treasure it. I dont mind if anyone comes into it, but they can NOT interfere with it. Anyway... the anger she directed at you had nothing to do with you. You wanted to be friends... and I think you tried. But sometimes, it takes a long time to forgive and forget. She made the decision to sever the relationship. All you can do now is respect that and move on. Friends dont make you feel like this. Just walk away. I really do understand the need for a personal space outside of the “real” world. This online world is as real as the outside world, but we draw a line between how we share ourselves here and how we interact offline.

For me personally, I’ve decided to be more of the person that I’d like to be by practising online. Now, there is little difference between online ani and offline ani. And I like that.

I still have private spaces online where I can express myself and think things out with words and images. I need that space… and I treasure it. I dont mind if anyone comes into it, but they can NOT interfere with it.

Anyway… the anger she directed at you had nothing to do with you. You wanted to be friends… and I think you tried. But sometimes, it takes a long time to forgive and forget. She made the decision to sever the relationship. All you can do now is respect that and move on.

Friends dont make you feel like this.
Just walk away.

]]> By: Elaine http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-811 Elaine Tue, 17 Nov 2009 21:46:33 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-811 You are right. This is your blog and you can say what you want on it. So enjoy your blog. You are right. This is your blog and you can say what you want on it. So enjoy your blog.

]]> By: Chris M http://blindcripple.co.za/2009/11/a-little-something-about-my-personal-space/comment-page-1/#comment-810 Chris M Tue, 17 Nov 2009 21:46:22 +0000 http://blindcripple.co.za/?p=582#comment-810 Stress not about it bro, I've been there before in a similar scenario when it comes to blogs being found. I think it's a good thing she read your post, it was the truth and it would have taught her a lesson hence her anger! "People who don’t blog could never understand what it’s like to have a whole separate world to talk to and to have them listen too, no matter who they are." Those are true words brutha! Stress not about it bro, I’ve been there before in a similar scenario when it comes to blogs being found. I think it’s a good thing she read your post, it was the truth and it would have taught her a lesson hence her anger!

“People who don’t blog could never understand what it’s like to have a whole separate world to talk to and to have them listen too, no matter who they are.”

Those are true words brutha!

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