Comments on: A Little Bit About Going Out

By: blindcripple

blindcripple — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 06:14:18 +0000

Hahaha. John – Funny guy

Maybe we should investigate some places…

By: John

John — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 06:11:28 +0000

Good post, makes a lot of sense and reminds us that we still have a little “caveman” in us.

“Circular dance floor”? Maybe your article would of been slightly different if you chose a different club

By: blindcripple

blindcripple — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 16:16:56 +0000

@cath – Thank you… At least there is one believer.

@andrÃ© – Correct. I am NOT. But very sad indeed. I can’t even if I’m very drunk, be like that. I think it’s disrespectful to behave like that.

No one said this was gonna be easy…

By: AndrÃ©

AndrÃ© — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 05:31:08 +0000

So, just so’s we’re clear…
You’re NOT gay?

)
Interesting insights, dude. I think the overt touch/offer thing that seems to be ok with girls, is a sad sign of a lack of respect/self-respect. Very sad.

By: cath

cath — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:48:36 +0000

Two things…

1. LOL. appropos a conversation we’ve had: I TOLD YOU PEOPLE DON’T THINK YOU’RE GAY! See? believe me now? nobody thinks youre gay. you make a terrible gay person! WAH! I was right! ten points to me.

2. You’re right. I hate the random acts of affection. the un-promise of a strange hookup.

By: blindcripple

blindcripple — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:24:44 +0000

@Astrodate – I already think I’m picky and choosy about my parters. Sometimes too choosy, but I think I know what I want out of someone, and if I’m going to date them, there should be a point to it. This year should be an interesting one. I need to date moreâ€¦ Learn more.

@desrie – I’ve always been against the stupid drunk types out at clubsâ€¦ I love a good dance too, but even the girls start to think that EVERYONE is a drunk fool. makes our lives harder tooâ€¦Sigh. I don’t want it to be the place I find my next girlfriend, but I’d like it to be somewhere I can go with her. Make sense?

@blade – I am too to be honest. I think I need to actually *be* more single, but I think that is what is to come this year. And you said it perfectlyâ€¦ It is about you and what you’d like to be, who, where, howâ€¦ Once you know you, it’ll all be easier.

@Chris M – Never again. Thanks, dude.

@Nandoism – Thanks! And I plan to!

By: nandoism

nandoism — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 15:21:15 +0000

Great observations-every does “single” in their own way…and your story made me think about how I do single–as a gay guy. Great post buddy,but leave the gay act for the experts–hahaha.

By: Chris M

Chris M — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 13:13:35 +0000

Deep. That was a cool read, I can relate to many of the things you’ve mentioned bro! I love the gay move, what a classic, been there before, had a good laugh

By: blade

blade — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 08:05:12 +0000

@Desrie i agree. one of the crappy things about clubbing is having to deal with all the douche-bags with no sense of personal space.

i don’t recon tiger-tiger is a good place to find wifey.

By: blade

blade — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 07:57:02 +0000

hahaha certainly very entertaining observing neandrathals try their luck.
you are right, It sometimes puzzles me how some girls fall for that kinda behavior.
the single life can be hardcore.
and just as you said, its pretty interesting watching how people handle / deal with it.

I myself am really enjoying the single life. im learning a lot about myself, what I want and what I don’t want..and more importantly how to get what I want. Its not easy , but what other choice does one have? i sure as hell aint doing the celibate monk thing.