Your Everything…

I recently heard from my ex that she has a new boyfriend.  We dated for nearly four years before we broke up.  She, thankfully, moved to a different city to begin her new life, and left me to restart mine. Or so I thought. There was too much attempting to fix a friendship that maybe shouldn’t have been salvaged at that stage, and now I’m here licking my own wounds.  Again.  I seem to always set myself up for this type of situation, [problem – I know], but it always seems worth it?  What’s worse is I know the guy.  Well, not really, but I know of him.  They met while we were dating.  Fan-fucking-tastic. And the crap thing is I always knew.  You should always trust your instinct. Always always always. So, who am i to be giving relationship advice?  I mean, I may have let the last real thing slip from right under my nose when it was maybe there to be taken and fixed. But let’s be honest, it is so easy to judge other peoples relationships, and far far easier to give advice.   Maybe it distracts us from our own chaotic life. In fact, it is likely to be just that. But is getting advice from other people really the best idea?  Someone I’ve never actually met told me to go to a club...

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